Blog: My decade of compassion with VASL Posted on Wednesday, 24 September 2025

For the past decade, my life has been enriched by a quiet, yet profoundly meaningful journey with VASL (Voluntary Action South Leicestershire).

What began as a simple commitment to help others has evolved into a cornerstone of my personal growth, offering me far more than I could ever give. My role has been a straight- forward one: to combat loneliness by simply being there for someone.

Loneliness is a silent epidemic, often hidden behind closed doors. Over the years, I’ve had the privilege of stepping into the lives of many individuals who simply needed a friend. The satisfaction I’ve gained from these visits is immeasurable. It’s found in the simple act of listening to someone’s story, sharing a cup of tea, or laughing together over a fond memory. The moments that stand out aren’t grand gestures, but the quiet exchanges – a hand to hold, a knowing glance, the feeling of connection.

One of the most unexpected and rewarding aspects of my volunteering journey has been the presence of my loyal co-pilot, my cockapoo Amber. Bringing her along has often been the key that unlocked a door.

She possesses a unique ability to break down barriers, offering unconditional comfort and joy. I’ve witnessed the transformation in a person’s demeanour when they pet her, their faces lighting up with a smile that was perhaps long overdue. Her gentle nature has provided a special kind of therapy, reminding me of the simple, powerful bond between humans and animals.

Through these experiences, I have met some of the most remarkable people. Each one has a story, a history, and a spirit that has taught me about resilience and grace. My time with VASL has shown me that volunteering isn’t just about making a difference in someone else’s life; it’s about allowing them to make a difference in yours. The memories and the lessons I’ve gathered over the last 10 years are a gift I will always cherish.

Amber and I together with Kath lead a Walk & Talk Group in Welland Park on the first Thursday of the month at 1pm meet at the cafe. We do a leisurely am- ble round the park and chat

Our furry friends are welcome.

By Alan Tolley

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